The journey of a SOBER LIFE begins with THE First step....
Start READing!
Opportunity House Sober Living is in it's third year of operation. We see ourselves as a faith-based peer-to-peer self-helping organization. where each client/resident will be able to learn how to reintegrate themselves back into society with as little pain as possible. Clients will be required to go to four AA or NA meetings a week, one of the four must be done on the weekend. They will also be required to attend several in house meetings per week. Clients that have not completed a program prior to admittance will be on a 30 day blackout. Blackouts consist of total lockdown with only being able to go to and from work and escorted with other residents to meetings. Our primary purpose for this program is to take a person who wants to do better for themselves and remain abstinent of drugs and alcohol to help guide them in doing this. The House parent will be more than willing to point them in the right direction. The house Parent will be making sure all residents are clean and sober be doing random urine analysis (UA) as well as Breathalyzer testing.
ABOUT OPPORTUNITY HOUSE
we are a happy and humble home which can hold up to 15 residents and to houseparents. It is a 6 bedroom three bath Single level 2,100 Square ft Home on a 3,300 square-foot lot. We have an indoor pool with a big backyard which is also home to the house dogs both of which are F1 Golden doodles and are completely hypoallergenic and always happy and ready to greet new friends. We also have Comcast digital cable triple play package and Wi-Fi speeds of up to 300 MBS. Our location is also within walking distance of a grocery store and several NA and AA meetings as well. Planet Fitness is also with in walking distance if your wanting a gym member ship however we do have some weights at the house. We are a faith-based Home designed specifically for those of us that need somewhere that will hold them accountable of their actions and gives them structure to their lives as they begin the process of reintegrating themselves back into society in a positive way.
ABOUT OPPORTUNITY HOUSE
we are a happy and humble home which can hold up to 15 residents and 2 house parents. It is a 6 bedroom 3 bath Single level 2,100 Square-ft. Home on a 3,300 square-ft lot. We have an indoor pool with a big backyard which is also home to the house dogs both of which are F1 Golden doodles and are completely hypoallergenic and always happy and ready to greet new friends. We also have Comcast digital cable with the triple play package so you will never miss a sporting event and we have the recordable DVR so you will never have to miss a meeting again either. Wi-Fi speeds of up to 300 MBS. Our location is also within walking distance of a grocery store and several NA and AA meetings. Planet Fitness is with in walking distance if you're wanting a gym member ship however if you are looking for the cheaper route we do have some weights at the house. We are a faith-based Home designed specifically for those of us that need somewhere that will hold them accountable for their actions and gives them a structure to their lives as they begin the process of reintegrating themselves back into society in a positive way.
Opportunity House Sober Living Rules
Opportunity House Sober Living is a structured environment with clear rules and standards, Please read requirements.
House Structure- Rules:
__ 1. All Residents must maintain abstinent from any mind-altering substances, including alcohol and some prescription drugs. (ALL medications must be cleared through the main office.)
__ 2. Violence, intimidation, or the threat of violence is not tolerated.
__ 3. Opportunity Sober Living House does not permit the possession of weapons or explosives of any kind. This includes knives, switchblades, guns, fireworks, etc. A resident found harboring these items are to be discharged and the appropriate authorities notified.
__ 4. Possession of illegal contraband will result in immediate discharge and possible notification of the authorities.
__ 5. Family and visitors are welcome as long as they are clean and sober and have a preapproved visit. Visitors are to remain in the common areas. Visiting "hour"/'or weekdays are between 5:00 pm 8:30pm, limit one hour; weekend visiting is three hours from 01:00 pm-4:00 pm.
__ 6. Resident and guests are to remain fully clothed while in common areas.
__ 7. Resident will not engage in any "horse play" or "rough housing".
__ 8. Resident must not engage in sexual promiscuity or become involved in sexual relationships or over-associated with other program participants.
__ 9. Residents are not allowed to enter other resident bedrooms. Common areas are for socializing.
__ 10. Resident may watch television in the common area's as long as it does not disturb others.
__ 11. Resident must not borrow and/or lend personal belongings, or money to one another.
__ 12. There is absolutely no smoking in the house at any time. Smoking is only permitted in designated outdoor area.
__ 13. Residents are responsible for any personal property they bring into Opportunity House Sober Living. Opportunity House Sober Living and staff members are not responsible for personal property.
__ 14. Our Home is kept neat, clean, and orderly. Each resident will complete assigned chores as scheduled.
__ 15. Resident will strive to be cooperative and will take direction from the House Parent and Opportunity Sober Living House, staff members.
__ 16. Restrictions may be assigned by the House Parents or Staff and must be followed.
__ 17. Participation in the general house support group meeting Sunday thru Thursday @ 9:30pm
__ 18. Curfew Sunday through Thursday is 9:30 pm. Violations of curfew will result in drug/alcohol testing, restrictions or even discharge.
__ 19. Attendance of all committed off property support groups and directives by referral entity, and must be documented.
__ 20. Resident should participate in recommended activities of self-help per week.
__ 21. Resident is encouraged to attend referral entity commitments as directed. Ex: VA may ask a PTSD resident to attend a therapy session or group at the VA Hospital. Resident agrees to comply with referral entity appointments.
__ 22. Residents will adhere to all conditions set by referral entity in order to assure residency at Opportunity Sober Living House.
__ 23. Residents are required to sign in and out by documenting departure time, destination, and time of return.
__ 24. Please maintain appropriate standards of behavior, dress and personal hygiene. Revealing clothing "colors" and anything that has drug or alcohol logos is prohibited. If you have a question about dress, please ask a staff member.
__ 25. Residents will refrain from excessive street talk, swearing or abusive language.
__ 26. Gambling and pornographic material is prohibited.
__ 27. All Resident must understand and agree that their belongings are subject to random search by Opportunity Sober Living House, staff for contraband. All homes are subject to drug detection canine monitoring.
__ 28. Resident will submit to drug testing upon request by Opportunity Sober Living House staff. Failure to cooperate will results in immediate discharge.
__ 29. Residents who violate a standard/rule and/or cause enough suspicion to initiate a Drug test agree to pay a $30.00 fee for the test.
__ 30. Resident must sleep in their assigned homes and beds, unless authorized by their House Parent and the Opportunity Sober Living House main office,
__ 31. Resident understands that we are good neighbors. We do our best to be caring, considerate, and to provide support and service to one another, to our home and neighborhood. Residents will not disturb nor contact neighbors.
__ 32. Treat neighbors and people in the neighborhood with care and respect. Complaints submitted by neighbors will be taken seriously and dealt with appropriately.
__ 33. Resident must possess valid insurance, license, and registration to have a vehicle while residing at our residence. Failure to abide by all of the guidelines regarding vehicles may result in termination.
__ 34. No cell phone use is permitted in common areas. Cell phones may be used in the non TV front living room, outdoors, or in room at roommates discretion
__ 35. Resident are not to engage nor socialize or associate with known practicing alcoholics, addicts or active violators of the law.
__ 36. Resident understands that this living arrangement is based on strict anonymity and will respect confidentiality at all times. What is said and heard here stays here. Divulging a person's identify could result in discharge,
__ 37. Resident shall not frequent any establishments where the primary beverage served is alcohol i.e. bars nightclubs and/or liquor stores.
__ 38. Opportunity Sober Living House, resident will refrain from establishments that provide pornography or pornographic entertainment such as topless bars, clubs, shops, or theaters.
__ 39. Resident will not frequent establishments which are known "'hang outs" for illegal activity such as drugs trafficking, drug use, pornographic material, etc.
__ 40. Resident agrees to complete an Exit Plan Interview with Opportunity Sober Living House at least one week prior to completion
Finance
__ 1. All fees are non-refundable.
__ 2. Monthly fess are due by the 1st of each month, a 10% late fee will be incurred if fees are paid after that date.
Standards
__ 1. It is Opportunity Sober Living House, family tradition to close meetings with hugs or hand shakes.
__ 2. Opportunity Sober Living House houses are homes, not boarding houses, hotels, or institutions. Opportunity Sober Living House encourages progress in recovery rather than custodial care.
__ 3. At Opportunity Sober Living House. Feelings are valued, shared and explored and undue negatives are discouraged. Opportunity Sober Living House promotes an honest, positive focus on feelings, thoughts, and actions.
__ 4. We are loyal and supportive at Opportunity Sober Living House.
__ 5. Daily aerobic exercise and sports contributing to physical fitness, which are important to recovery, are encouraged.
__. 6. At Opportunity Sober Living House, structure is used as a vehicle to help promote balance, growth, and positive changes in our lives.
__ 7. Residents are encouraged to read books and magazines that are positive and affirming. Our house is meant to be a spiritual environments.
Opportunity House Sober Living
GOOD NEIGHBOR GUIDELINES
1. We will be good citizens obeying all laws in our community.
2. We will obey all speed laws, and be especially watchful of children crossing the street.
3. We will park vehicles legally.
4. Vehicles driven by our resident will be insured and drivers will have valid driver's licenses.
5. Our family will not change oil, tires, or do any work on their car at our homes.
6. Vehicles not used as primary transportation will not be kept at our homes.
7. Vehicle pans will not be stored at our homes.
8. We will not lend vehicles to each other.
9. We will keep public walkways clear of vehicles, i.e., Bikes, cars, motorcycles.
10. We will be good neighbors, reporting illegal or suspicious activity in our neighborhood
to our house parent who will take appropriate reporting action.
11. Our family will not tolerate abusive, loud, or vulgar language anywhere in the home or neighborhood.
12. Radios, TV, etc., will always be monitored to assure low volume.
13. Quiet time is from 10:00pm to 8:00am, during this time there is to be no lengthy gatherings to talk, smoke or otherwise outdoors, especially after the house meeting, limit these to 3 to 4 minutes,
14. No outdoor conversing or "hanging out" in the yard after the house meeting. Noise carries at night and we must be considerate of our neighbors.
15. Any unusual occurrences or observations will be reported immediately to house parent who will advise Directors.
16. We will keep anonymity in our community regarding our home. We are afforded the same privacy as any other family.
17. We will supervise our visitors. No unattended visitors will ever be in our home.
18. We will maintain open, rigorously honest communication in our humble home.
19. We are proud to say we don't need care takers; we clean after ourselves, in and around our home.
20. What is said and done in our home stays in the privacy and confidentiality of our home.
21. We will not solicit work in our neighborhood.
22. We will not borrow from our neighbors.
23. We will be respectful, courteous neighbors, but because of social stigma we will limit our neighborhood contacts to salutations when coming and going from our home.
24. Our family will be totally respectful, cooperative and courteous with any Peace Officer Contact.
25. Our family will not litter, i.e., cigarette butts, gum wrappers, or any miscellaneous trash in front of our home, or anywhere in the community.
26. We are proud of whom we are today, the beauty of our homes, inside and out, and our positive attitude reflects our healthy lifestyle changes.
27. No minor visitors under 18 years allowed without prior approval.
WHAT TO BRING
Given the space allotted for each resident and it may not be big enough for all of your belongings. We ask that you only bring 7 to 10 days worth clothes. You will have adequate Space for that amount one or two weeks worth of food as each person is assigned their own shelf in one of the refrigerators and the same goes for dry food. you will need sheets and pillow for the standard twin mattress. don't forget a towel. Silverware, dishware, cooking utensils and Appliances have already been supplied. Thank You